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		<title>I was 18 and&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 20:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lusty Lulu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recollections of my First Ever Threesome My best girlfriend and I have been at a party. The DJ just put the usual, smoochy, “last song of the evening, boys and girls” on the turntable. All the loved up couples start to emerge from the darkened perimeter of the dance floor, hardly bothering to un-glue their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: larger;"><strong>Recollections of my First Ever Threesome</strong></span></p>
<p>My best girlfriend and I have been at a party. The DJ just put the usual, smoochy,  “last song of the evening, boys and girls” on the turntable.</p>
<p>All the loved up couples start to emerge from the darkened perimeter of the dance floor, hardly bothering to un-glue their faces from each other as they shuffle into the sparkly lights and start that funny little tiny-steps, circular dance thing they always do.</p>
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<p>Rachel and I slowly make our way off the dance floor, hot and hyped up from spending the whole evening moving our bodies to rock music, flirting and teasing the boys as we wriggled and rubbed up against them in our mini skirts and barely there tops.</p>
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<p>We were always the wildest 2 in our school year. Now we’re here, at Matt’s 18th birthday party – probably one of the last parties we’ll all be at together before going our separate ways to university, careers and our grown-up futures.</p>
<p>Jeff, Matt’s younger brother, is here. He’s only a year younger than us but we’ve never really paid him much attention – until tonight that is.</p>
<p>He’s been away in France since the start of the Summer holidays, at a training camp for white-water canoeing. His whole family are canoeing nuts, but Jeff has that something extra and has been picked to train for the national team.</p>
<p>He arrived late and Rachel and I just looked at each other as he stood in the doorway  –  6 ft tall, shoulders to die for, his white tee-shirt stretched tight across a chest the size of a double bed. Little brother has certainly done a lot of growing up in the last couple of months and we both know what the other is thinking!</p>
<p>Sex with Jeff &#8211; may the best woman win!</p>
<p>Now the evening is coming to a close and we aren’t ready for it all to end. We drift back into the other room where the bar and most of the boys are – well, the ones without a girlfriend.</p>
<p>Over in the corner, Rachel and I spot Jeff, talking to a couple of boys we’re friends with and seize the opportunity.</p>
<p>Neither of us is interested in thoughts of love and having a steady boyfriend. What’s the point? Come September we’ll be off to different parts of the country and would only have to endure the separation. Besides, who knows what fresh dating talent will be waiting for us when we get to Uni’?</p>
<p>However, we still have needs and right now we’re about to have one of our little competitions and see who gets to take “canoe boy” for a ride down a country lane.</p>
<p>Jeff has always been really quiet, something we’ve always taken for shyness. He hardly says a word as we join our friends and start joking about the size of his muscles and how blond he’s become after weeks in the hot, French sunshine.</p>
<p>A couple of the boys start flirting with us, but we make it quite clear that it’s not them we’re interested in and they soon start drifting off, looking to get a last crack at any unattached girls before the party ends and people start to leave.</p>
<p>Surprisingly, Jeff stays where he is, coolly sipping his beer with a half-smile on his face.</p>
<p>Rachel manages to get herself stood right next to him and isn’t shy about making sure her right breast is pressed up hard against his well muscled upper arm. Jeff doesn’t react, just carries on drinking his beer and smiling at me.</p>
<p>I suddenly sense the tables are slowly being turned on us – quiet, shy, little brother is obviously enjoying all this attention and knows full well the sexy game Rachel and I are playing.</p>
<p>As the last of our friends wanders off, he finally speaks and asks me if I’m driving my parents car tonight. I tell him I am and that it’s been Rachel’s turn to drink so I’m completely sober.</p>
<p>“Pity” he says.</p>
<p>“Why?” I ask.</p>
<p>“Well I’ve heard my brother and his friends talk about you and what you’re like after you’ve had a few beers – I was thinking that maybe this might be my lucky night”.</p>
<p>Rachel suddenly starts to choke on the mouthful of beer she’s just had and I simply stand there, eyes wide in disbelief at his statement and the affect it’s just had on my body.</p>
<p>What’s he playing at? He knows the rules – we’re the oldest girls in the school and you don’t make the first move if you’re in any year below ours.</p>
<p>But instead of putting him in his place, I suddenly realise I’m feeling excited by the idea that’s just flashed through my mind.</p>
<p>“I don’t have to have been drinking to let my inhibitions go –  it could be a good thing for you that I’mdriving. How about I give you a lift home – after we’ve taken a little detour. What do you reckon, Rachel?”</p>
<p>The three of us head for the back door of the building, so as to leave un-noticed and are soon high in the hills above our village, heading for a country park with parking spaces well hidden from the road.</p>
<p>When we arrive, Rachel is the first out of the car and shouts to me to leave the music playing and the headlights on as she makes her way through the darkness, heading for one of the picnic tables lit by the car lights on the grass verge.</p>
<p>She quickly climbs on top of the table and starts dancing.</p>
<p>“What are you waiting for?”, Jeff asks me and I grin back at him before going to join my friend dancing in the headlights on top of the table, putting on a show for Jeff.</p>
<p>We rub our bodies up against each other and run our hands over the others buttocks and thighs. Rachel puts her hands on my shoulders and turns me around, sliding her hands down over my breasts.</p>
<p>I start to pull away as I’ve never done anything like this before, but the devil in me decides to stay where I am and put on a show, putting Jeff back in his place.</p>
<p>After a couple of minutes having my nipples played with and my breasts squeezed and rubbed, I realise I’m starting to enjoy myself and forget all about Jeff, who is now out of the car and sat watching us from the bench opposite our table.</p>
<p>I feel my girlfriend’s hands slide down to my waist and then back up and under the cropped, red tee-shirt I’m wearing. I don’t wear a bra, I’m only 18 and really don’t need one so I gasp as I feel her hands make contact with my bare skin. My knees almost give way as a shock of pleasure and excitement tears through my body.</p>
<p>Feeling more horny than ever before, I push my buttocks back against Rachel’s crotch and hear her start to moan in my ear.</p>
<p>Suddenly, I feel another pair of hands on my thighs and remember Jeff. He climbs up to join us on the table, pressing his hard cock against my groin and kissing me with the most intense desire.</p>
<p>Quickly, Rachel slips out from behind me and goes to stand behind Jeff – sandwiching him between the two of us. We have him trapped and start to run our hands all over his body, sliding ourselves up and down his big strong thighs, un-buckling his belt and pulling his tee-shirt over his head.</p>
<p>He quickly pulls my top off and I shudder as I feel my hard, tingling nipples crushed against his smooth, rippling chest. Rachel is kneeling behind him, easing his trousers down his legs, followed by his boxers and I suddenly feel his cock pressing against my naked stomach.</p>
<p>I pull away and glance down to see the end of it glistening with pre-cum ooze in the glow of the car lights.</p>
<p>I can’t resist it and sink to my knees to lick the end of his knob before swallowing him as deep as I possibly can. I hear Jeff start to groan and become aware of Rachel changing position to slide round behind me again.</p>
<p>She slips her hands under my skirt and between my legs where my silky pants are already wet with my excitement. I can’t believe my girlfriend is doing this to me but I’m enjoying it too much to be able to push her away.</p>
<p>Besides, I couldn’t even if I wanted to as Jeff now his hands buried deep in my hair as he thrusts his cock back and forth into my mouth, making it impossible for me to move.</p>
<p>Rachel is running her hands up and down my back, dragging her nails gently across my skin, then around under my arms, playing with my nipples once more.</p>
<p>I stop being able to think and realise all I can do now is “feel”. Every inch of my body is tingling with excitement and the ache between my legs is becoming almost unbearable.</p>
<p>Suddenly, Jeff pulls out of my mouth and jumps down from the table and flips me from on my knees to lying on my back with my legs dangling over the edge.</p>
<p>He sinks to his knees on the grass and, forcing my legs apart, buries his head between my thighs. Rachel climbs down too and momentarily pulls his head away so she can slide my skimpy thong down my legs before pushing his face back into my sopping groin.</p>
<p>She just stands there watching, rubbing between her own legs as Jeff licks and sucks my most private parts bringing me to the edge of orgasm. But I don’t want to come this way. I want to feel him inside me, his hands gripping hard on my buttocks as he thrusts into me over and over again.</p>
<p>Jeff does as I want and I can’t believe how big he feels as he starts to slide into me. I really can’t believe this is happening, especially when I feel Rachel’s lips against my neck and then her tongue starting to trace a soft, slippery path, down towards my breasts.</p>
<p>I catch my breath as I feel her teeth gently teasing my right nipple, her hand massaging my left breast and all the while, Jeff is thrusting in and out of me. Between them, they’re carrying me away to a place I’d never known existed. Pictures of what the three of us must look like flashed through my mind, exciting me even more.</p>
<p>Suddenly, Rachel stops what she’s doing and climbs up onto the table. Before I have time to even think about what she’s doing, she positions herself over my face and lowers her smooth, hairless pussy down and onto my gasping mouth.</p>
<p>Jeff can’t believe what he’s seeing and starts to go wild inside my body. Rachel lets out a long, low sigh as I begin to move my tongue over her lips and circle her clitoris. I start to feel my own orgasm building up in the pit of my stomach, the muscles between my legs starting to contract and the white light I always see behind my closed eyelids begins to appear.</p>
<p>Jeff and Rachel sense the change in my body, something which seems to start to push them over the edge as the three of us melt further into being just one. Rachel begins to call out into the night, pressing down harder onto my face whilst Jeff leans forward and grasps hold of my breasts as he pounds into me a last time before his orgasm rips through his body, finally releasing my own from within me.</p>
<p>The sensation travels in waves through Jeff and me, up into Rachel, who throws back her head and screams into the darkness beyond the pool of light in which the three of us have just spent the last hour making love.</p>
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		<title>10 Reasons Single People Should Join an Online Dating Site</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 21:15:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mx</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[10 reasons to use Internet Dating sites to meet your perfect match! 1. Sheer volume The number of people looking for dates on Internet Dating sites has gone through the roof in the last couple of years. If you’re using an online dating service, you potentially have access to thousands of like-minded singles and you’ll [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>10 reasons to use Internet Dating sites to meet your perfect match!</strong></p>
<p><strong>1.  Sheer volume </strong></p>
<p>The number of people looking for dates on Internet Dating sites has gone through the roof in the last couple of years. If you’re using an online dating service, you potentially have access to thousands of like-minded singles and you’ll be amazed at just how many of them are local to you!</p>
<p><strong>2.  Less nerve-wracking</strong></p>
<p>Do your knees quake at the mere thought of walking across a crowded room, just to say “hi” to someone? What if when you open your mouth a whole load of garbage comes out? What if they’re not actually there to meet someone new? Just think how much easier it would be to say what you really mean in a well thought out email without fear of getting your lines muddled. And as the person you’re emailing is on the same dating site as you, you already know they are online looking for a date! Simple.<span id="more-19"></span></p>
<p><strong>3. Easier on your wallet </strong></p>
<p>Before online dating really took off, if you were single, chances are you’d head to a bar or club to try and meet the man or woman of your dreams. While you might have a great night out, statistics show this is actually one of the least successful ways to meet your soul mate. You need an outgoing, confident personality and be able to actually get to chat with people – not easy with music blaring and when, say, the woman you’ve set you’re sights on is out on the town with a group of giggling girlfriends. For the same cost as taxis, entry to a club, drinks etc you could sign up for a 6 month membership to a great dating site and get chatting straight away to someone who fits the bill.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Focus" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/29954908@N03/3077810951/" target="_blank"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3047/3077810951_fbde5b995c.jpg" border="0" alt="Focus" /></a><br />
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<p><strong>4. Quick and easy</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong> We all have busy lives and meeting other singles online is a lot faster than conventional dating. It takes seconds to login to an online dating site and do a few quick searches to bring up any potential profile matches. Getting in touch and sending them an instant message couldn’t be easier – or quicker!</p>
<p><strong>5. Playing safe</strong></p>
<p>When using a good, reputable dating site, all mail and communication remains anonymous. This means that you and the person you are communicating with will know each other only by your screen names, (nick name) NOT your real name. They can only find out your real name, phone number and address from you should you decide this is actually the right person to give this information too.</p>
<p><strong>6. Everyone is available</strong></p>
<p>Who joins a dating service? Well, anyone who, for whatever reason, wants to meet someone. If you go to a bar or a club to meet other singles for dating, it’s pretty likely less than half the people there have come looking for Mr or Miss Right with whom they can start a relationship. Chances are, they’re there just for a good time with their friends.</p>
<p><strong>7. Getting to know you </strong></p>
<p>Because of the clever way an online dating site is set up, you can be pretty sure that you have access to accurate personality profiles of potential new boyfriends or girlfriends. The way a dating site works ensures only singles who are likely to be a good match based on information such as their interests, education, physical appearance, location etc are presented to you. You also get access to the kind of information that probably wouldn’t be discussed on a first date – like whether they want a family, their religion and so on, which, lets face it, are all pretty important facts to know about someone you’re considering having a relationship with.</p>
<p><strong>8. Meeting new people</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong> Online dating makes meeting new people so much easier. And sometimes, even if nothing romantic comes out of it, life-long friendships can be made. The search options on internet dating sites make it easy to search for people with a wide range of interests and characteristics – so you can deliberately set out to search for the complete opposite of your “usual type” or to meet new men or women who sound different and exciting.</p>
<p><strong>9. Rejection </strong></p>
<p>Lets face it – none of us enjoys being turned down. But somehow, a simple email saying, “thanks, but no thanks” is easier to bear than a face-to-face “not interested, thanks”! And chances are, you’ll be turning a few people down yourself – there are so many opportunities for singles to get together with these sites, it’s just not feasible to accept every invitation to connect or have everyone you get in touch with want to start communicating with you. Don’t worry about it – there’s plenty more fish out in the world-wide-web!</p>
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<p><strong>10. Dating site security</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong> Should you start mailing or chatting to someone online and find they are actually a real pain and make a nuisance of themselves, with internet dating, it’s not such a big deal. Nearly all dating sites let you block members from appearing in your search results, sending you emails or chatting to you if this is what you want. It’s pretty easy  to do and usually just involves clicking on the block button that appears next to their name in either search results or their profile page. Should you need help, you can always contact the dating site customer support people who will resolve things straight away for you.</p>
<p>Did I say “10 reasons” ? Well, here’s one more, just for good measure!</p>
<p><strong>11. Happy ever after </strong></p>
<p>The growing number of marriages and long-term relationships formed as a result of single people using online dating sites is a modern day phenomena. When you use online dating correctly, with all the benefits outlined above, you will almost always succeed in finding someone to date, perhaps fall in love with and maybe spend the rest of your lives together.   What better reason can there be to go and sign up straight away?!</p>
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