I am dating a transsexual, advice would be greatly appreciated?

October 8, 2008 by · 5 Comments
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Fia asked:


I am currently in a relationship with a pre-transitional *********** woman (technically, she’s not yet 18, but whatever). I don’t know when she is intending on coming out, but I wish to be as supportive as possible. Would someone who is in a similar relationship please offer their expertise?

Also, please be mature about the subject matter, and be respectful. Any rude comments will be removed, and if that is not an option, the question itself will be removed.

Ladies – 5 reasons to date an older man – and money ain’t one of them!

May 31, 2008 by · Leave a Comment
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Sex

Older men are more interested in pleasing you for as long as possible before pleasing themselves. If you’re used to younger guys that just dive in there and don’t give you any thought and consideration, you’re in for a treat!

Baggage

We’ve all got it in one way, shape or form. The thing is though, older men realize this and tend to take it all in their stride. They’re more laid back and have been around enough to have a more philosophical take on life than younger, less mature men.

Romance

Confidence is something that often develops with age. An older man will have the self-confidence ,as well as thoughtfulness, to say and carry out romantic gestures – unlike his younger counterpart who just thinks that kind of thing is for jessies!

Supportive

Older men are usually a lot more secure in themselves and less likely to see a woman with drive and ambition as a threat. Indeed, with his contacts and life experiences, it’s more likely that he’ll play a large part in you securing your dreams.

And finally……….

He’s ready to settle down

Unlike younger men, a guy who has sown a few wild oats and got a lot of youthful wilfulness out of his system is more likely to want to settle down and commit to a monogamous relationship.