icabod crane asked:


i was just diagnosed with ******* herpes a few months ago and just started dating someone who doesn’t know i have it (nor did i get it from her). i really like her a lot and as such don’t want to tell her i have herpes because i’m afraid of her freaking out and/or. we’ve been slowly becoming more and more intimate with eachother but haven’t had the type of sexual contact that could infect her. i don’t want to be that ***hole who gives ****** herpes without telling them. i have no idea when to bring it up or even how to tell her so she can decide if she wants to stay with me or not. any advice on how to do so?