jdm_2460177 asked:


Here’s the story. This guy that I’ve had a crush on for maybe a year that works in public transport. Usually we don’t get to talk a whole lot cause he’s busy working. We’ve talked on msn and facebook a few times and he asked me out for drinks in December but never followed up on that (I was busy and I think he was kinda busy as well). Well recently he told me we should go to a club together and said that I should check out his new place sometime (he just moved). On facebook, there’s an application where you can click on people who you’d date and a) let them know b) keep it anonymous c) no you’re not interested. But if two people say yes anonymously then it notifies both users that there’s a match.
My main issue is that I think he’s more of a “chat in person” rather then online…hence why he hasn’t messaged me about it. I’m really nervous to see him again (which will be relatively soon) cause I don’t know how we’ll react…it could be a little awkward no?
Any flirting tips would be gre
(sorry…*great*) (ran out of space).
More details, he first approached me like a year ago after I said hi to him (his face pratically lit up) and asked me my name and such. Everytime he see’s me we always smile and say hi to eachother. Last time he saw me from a bit of a distance and walked up to say hi. However I don’t know how to get past that “hi how are you” stage!
Do you think (cause I just recieved that “you have a match” notification like the other day) so maybe he’s not saying anything online to try not to sound desperate or that maybe he prefer’s this sort of communication in person?

How do I flirt with this man? (Instead of just smiling all the time like i always do haha)