Getting Ready for Dating Again – Pt 2
Read Part 1 of getting ready for dating again first by clicking this link
Ok – so you’re ready to start looking for a new boyfriend?
Let me guess – you’re nervous/shy/scared/confused about getting back out there again?
Well d’you know what? That’s ok. In fact it’s perfectly normal.
Breaking up, especially if it was a long-term relationship, can really knock you for six. It’s pretty common for women to say they lost a lot of self-confidence and had low esteem – especially about their looks.
If this sounds like you, then stop worrying right now!
Regaining your confidence and feeling good about yourself is easy if you just put a bit of thought into bringing the inner you back to life and remembering just how fabulous you truly are.
1. Start telling yourself that you’re lovely, sexy, funny, desirable –
all the things that you actually are but just can’t see right now. Surround yourself with uplifting and positive friends who all think you’re wonderful. And when someone pays you a compliment, accept it with a gracious “thank you”. Banish that little demon who sits on your shoulder whispering negative nonsense in your ear and replace him with George Clooney, whispering what he’d like to be doing to you right now!
