Jessica S asked:
ok, i just started working at this gas station, met this really cute guy, he is my age, 19, and he is really nice and cute….i like him, but i just want to sleep with him, not as a boyfriend. i need some advice about how to flirt with him, and yet still be safe (you know, not go out on a limb and perhaps get rejected). basically, i want to get some ideas about what i could do to get his interest, without coming off as a ****. i am not trying to feel better, i am feeling attracted, and i am rather clueless as to where to go from here. men usually want to sleep with women they dont have feelings for, and i doubt he would get hurt in the process. i am a woman, and i dont see anything wrong with having a friend-with-benefits. if you are not going to give me a real answer, then dont answer at all.
if there was a chance that we could be together, that is great, but i have a kid and i dont want to push him to grow up and play daddy, that is all…….
i am not being vindictive, not trying to get revenge, just think that i should be able to have casual *** with a nice friend, but i dont want to seem ******. how do i do that? really, dont be all judgmental, please.
ok, i just started working at this gas station, met this really cute guy, he is my age, 19, and he is really nice and cute….i like him, but i just want to sleep with him, not as a boyfriend. i need some advice about how to flirt with him, and yet still be safe (you know, not go out on a limb and perhaps get rejected). basically, i want to get some ideas about what i could do to get his interest, without coming off as a ****. i am not trying to feel better, i am feeling attracted, and i am rather clueless as to where to go from here. men usually want to sleep with women they dont have feelings for, and i doubt he would get hurt in the process. i am a woman, and i dont see anything wrong with having a friend-with-benefits. if you are not going to give me a real answer, then dont answer at all.
if there was a chance that we could be together, that is great, but i have a kid and i dont want to push him to grow up and play daddy, that is all…….
i am not being vindictive, not trying to get revenge, just think that i should be able to have casual *** with a nice friend, but i dont want to seem ******. how do i do that? really, dont be all judgmental, please.
