Getting Ready for Dating Again – Pt 2
Read Part 1 of getting ready for dating again first by clicking this link
Ok – so you’re ready to start looking for a new boyfriend?
Let me guess – you’re nervous/shy/scared/confused about getting back out there again?
Well d’you know what? That’s ok. In fact it’s perfectly normal.
Breaking up, especially if it was a long-term relationship, can really knock you for six. It’s pretty common for women to say they lost a lot of self-confidence and had low esteem – especially about their looks.
If this sounds like you, then stop worrying right now!
Regaining your confidence and feeling good about yourself is easy if you just put a bit of thought into bringing the inner you back to life and remembering just how fabulous you truly are.
1. Start telling yourself that you’re lovely, sexy, funny, desirable –
all the things that you actually are but just can’t see right now. Surround yourself with uplifting and positive friends who all think you’re wonderful. And when someone pays you a compliment, accept it with a gracious “thank you”. Banish that little demon who sits on your shoulder whispering negative nonsense in your ear and replace him with George Clooney, whispering what he’d like to be doing to you right now!
I was 18 and…
Recollections of my First Ever Threesome
My best girlfriend and I have been at a party. The DJ just put the usual, smoochy, “last song of the evening, boys and girls” on the turntable.
All the loved up couples start to emerge from the darkened perimeter of the dance floor, hardly bothering to un-glue their faces from each other as they shuffle into the sparkly lights and start that funny little tiny-steps, circular dance thing they always do.
Rachel and I slowly make our way off the dance floor, hot and hyped up from spending the whole evening moving our bodies to rock music, flirting and teasing the boys as we wriggled and rubbed up against them in our mini skirts and barely there tops.
