crzybeachchic asked:


Use your eyes!
Touch his arm!
blah blah blah blah blah!!! I’ve heard it all and somehow, someway, what everyone is telling me are things ive heard before. I want some GOOD ideas. Like different ideas that are things that people dont always do but are really effective for flirting.
I talk to him often and i still cant seem to just say here’s my number or whats yours? thats like the only thing i cant say to him!!!!ODD, yeah?

6 Comments on why is flirting advice always the same?

willibwa on Wed, 31st Dec 2008 7:54 pm


Okay! Try going up to him and lightly brush your body against him and hand him your handphone. Give me your number love. Maybe it will work, huh?

bluemountainscougar on Fri, 2nd Jan 2009 3:08 am


Become a natural open person. Don’t try to play the flirting game. Guys can spot that a mile away. Work on your own sexuality. Become comfortable with you. Feel attractive. Be attractive. Laugh. Talk. Be yourself. They will come to you.

mink_kat on Mon, 5th Jan 2009 11:27 am


Just being yourself and having a sense of humor. I’m sure you’ve probably heard this but it seems to work with me. that way when you get together with the guy he knows you. You don’t always have to flirt to get a guys attention, if a guy likes you and wants to get to know you, then that’s all you gotta do. just be yourself. I hope that works for you, sorry if it doesn’t.

coffeejunkie79 on Thu, 8th Jan 2009 9:04 am


The reason flirting advice is always the same is because it’s based on observed human responses to stimuli. All flirting advice is the same because it resonates with us on a primal level and it works.

Keziah_indnJC on Sun, 11th Jan 2009 11:56 am


Be yourself..that is all that matters because at the first minute of glance, a guy can judge you right away ( this goes true if you want a long-term relationship ) So don’t give him the idea that you are easy, give them at least a little challenge. Hope this helps

Akai on Tue, 13th Jan 2009 4:36 am


Flirting advice is always the same because that’s what acceptable by people. You could try to do something else but some people might find you’re just being wierd/ too bold/ not cool/ too brassy/trying too hard. Some people might don’t even understand that you’re flirting with them. But there are people who would be interested in new appoach though.

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