Comments on: Single moms I need Advice for dating a single mom? http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/ dating, love, romance, lust and libido Mon, 15 Jun 2009 21:48:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: azladygeek http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/comment-page-1/#comment-798 azladygeek Fri, 12 Sep 2008 19:30:09 +0000 http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/#comment-798 Trust comes from time and consistent, positive actions. So continue to be her friend first. Make sure she knows she can count on that. If you haven't told her how sorry you are for what she went through or how it angers you that someone could do that to her or to anyone, now is the time to do that. Be consistent in your actions and follow through on everything you say you're going to do. Give her time and some space, but always let her know you're there for her and remind her you're waiting for her when she's ready. Most importantly, talk to her, open up to her, trust her to keep your secrets and let her know when you've told her something you haven't been comfortable sharing with others. When she shares things with her, let her know how much you value that she can talk to you. Trust comes from time and consistent, positive actions. So continue to be her friend first. Make sure she knows she can count on that. If you haven’t told her how sorry you are for what she went through or how it angers you that someone could do that to her or to anyone, now is the time to do that. Be consistent in your actions and follow through on everything you say you’re going to do. Give her time and some space, but always let her know you’re there for her and remind her you’re waiting for her when she’s ready. Most importantly, talk to her, open up to her, trust her to keep your secrets and let her know when you’ve told her something you haven’t been comfortable sharing with others. When she shares things with her, let her know how much you value that she can talk to you.

]]> By: Shieldgambit http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/comment-page-1/#comment-797 Shieldgambit Thu, 11 Sep 2008 05:57:04 +0000 http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/#comment-797 stay away from baby mama drama is right. don't go into a relationship where you have to convince anyone of anything. there are plenty of single gals without baggage who would like to have kids with you, rather than you raise the child of someone else. she sounds like trouble. she may have ignored her ex and drove him to cheat. find a good woman with no baggage. she can find plenty of single dads and they can make each other's lives miserable. stay away from baby mama drama is right.
don’t go into a relationship where you have to convince anyone of anything. there are plenty of single gals without baggage who would like to have kids with you, rather than you raise the child of someone else.
she sounds like trouble. she may have ignored her ex and drove him to cheat. find a good woman with no baggage. she can find plenty of single dads and they can make each other’s lives miserable.

]]> By: memyselfandI http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/comment-page-1/#comment-796 memyselfandI Thu, 11 Sep 2008 03:55:50 +0000 http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/#comment-796 It's really great that you keep your options open in who you date. But remember, don't leave her son out of the equation. Always ask how her son is doing. It will show that you care about both of them and not just after a booty call. It’s really great that you keep your options open in who you date. But remember, don’t leave her son out of the equation. Always ask how her son is doing. It will show that you care about both of them and not just after a booty call.

]]> By: Procrastinator http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/comment-page-1/#comment-795 Procrastinator Mon, 08 Sep 2008 22:19:33 +0000 http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/#comment-795 You need to be there for her all the time. You need to do all the things that are going to help her out and you need to do them without being asked. Take out the rubbish. Clean dishes. Don't ask what you can do to help, just do it. Find things that genuinely interest you about her son. Show him as much attention as you do her, but be mindful of stepping on her parental toes too early on. Be kind, gentle and honest. Don't reassure her about your commitment verbally, show her your commitment. You need to be there for her all the time. You need to do all the things that are going to help her out and you need to do them without being asked. Take out the rubbish. Clean dishes. Don’t ask what you can do to help, just do it.

Find things that genuinely interest you about her son. Show him as much attention as you do her, but be mindful of stepping on her parental toes too early on.

Be kind, gentle and honest. Don’t reassure her about your commitment verbally, show her your commitment.

]]> By: The Grim Reaper http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/comment-page-1/#comment-794 The Grim Reaper Sun, 07 Sep 2008 11:18:47 +0000 http://ionlywannabewithyou.com/guide-to-online-dating/single-moms-i-need-advice-for-dating-a-single-mom/#comment-794 STAY AWAY from the BABYMAMA DRAMA! STAY AWAY from the BABYMAMA DRAMA!

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