Im a 15 yr old guy fyi
Its exam time so Im pretty much out of contact with everyone except my really close friends and anyone I happen to run into.
I have been talking/flirting w/ this one girl who Im absolutely positive is interested me but Ive kind of hesitated; Im unsure as to how a summer relationship would work out last etc.
That being said if I want a gf (honestly I cant think of a guy who doesnt) should I try it out with the girl from school or look over the summer?
Now if you suggest the latter where would be a good place to go to meet girls? Theres not a lot to do in my town – weve got a mall, theatre, restaurants, etc. It’d be good to have some advice on how to approach a girl/what to say/a clever way to get her # w/out being like every other guy/but MOST important how to make a good 1st impression without being a just another guy she has hit on her
If any 1 needs clarification, just ask and ill edit the details
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@Lizzie: It’s not for the sake of having one. I’m just trying to see what other people think and glean insight from their answers. Whether I have any feelings for her or not isn’t the question or the point.
Well, first off if you just relax and dont hesitate or tell her your a bit nervous im sure she will understand. Be real nice and ask a real nice question such as “Do you like animals” or “Did you know that you spend 1/3 of your life asleep. BUt the question depends on if shes hyper,punk,shy, or gross. Before you go all out for her number you should ask her nicley to go somewhere simple with you like a park or on a walk. Then say “I want your number so over the summer I can call you.” Being 15 is another thing dont ask her kiddy questions like “DO you like swings.” Etc. Agian just be cool thats how I got my first Bf and were together 5 years later.
well girls pretty much always fall for a charming guy, im 14 and i always do :] so find a way to sweep them off their feet, cleverly! for approching girls the mall is definatly the best place to find them, when your in hollister or abercrombie, or pacsun or anyother stores girls love when they are with their friends and they are holding clothes er something in thier hands say something like,”oh my god! that color looks soooo cute on you!” (acting totally gay) but be like “just kidding” after u say it, then introduce yerself and they shall do the same!
If you like the girl from school go for her. If you don’t then don’t. If you’re running on the “grass is greener” mentality that will likely fail you. If you’re just looking for a girlfriend for the sake of having one rather than finding someone you like, does it really matter how or where you meet her?