ukuleleninja e asked:


I have been training as a pick up artist .I used to not be able to talk to or make conversation with any women. It used to be so bad that women would approach me at let me know they are interested and I would still mess it up. I have come a long way but I still get stuck at the same point (when women let me know they are attracted to me) I just don’t know what to do next, pretty much what I have done is gone from waiting for a women to become attracted to me and approach me to approaching a women and building her attraction for me. Ill have the girl laughing, putting her arms around me, giving me hugs and not letting go for like 2 minutes. I get so caught up in the pickup techniques that I forget what to do when a girl responds with genuine interest before I expect her to. Yesterday I was talking to this really cute girl, doing the method step by step and she fell really quick, out of no where she grabbed me by the waste and bit my neck and said I tasted yummy. I totally lost composure after that and didn’t know how to react and blew it.
pickup artists dont use pick up lines, its totally diffrent

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6 Comments on Im becoming a pickup artist but im stuck at one point can u give me advice?

lilmama06 on Tue, 10th Feb 2009 10:06 pm


stop over analyzing the situation, you get so caught up in all “your lines” that you forget what your suppose to be doing. Forget all that crap and just act natural. If she likes you for you then it’s real, if not then she was a fake anyways and your better off moving on.

Adrienne L on Wed, 11th Feb 2009 8:03 am


you are not your true self then. be yourself, women dont’ appreciate pick up lines and you act like a total different person later on.you must be on the pick up artist show huh?

Wh?? it R?i?s™ on Sat, 14th Feb 2009 9:02 am


that pick up artist stuff is a peice of shizz.
be YOURSELF. if a women tells you she’s atttractive to you, tell her your attracted back. Wa la, Problem solved.

Bob D on Sun, 15th Feb 2009 11:33 pm


Take the next step. Ask her what she is in the mood for? Ask her to go out to your car, your apartment, her apartment . . . if you are going to play the game, you better be willing to close the deal or you are just a tease.

Say something like this. “If you think my neck taste good, wait until later and I will let you taste something twice that good!” Or “Hold on now, how do I know you have my best interest at heart” (playing hard to get works as well).

If you are still practicing your craft, you need to practice the close as well as the opener, the fluff, and the conversation.

P1D1T3 on Tue, 17th Feb 2009 9:36 pm


I like this quesiton. Its genuine and real. First off, when a girl starts to show IOI, give a little back. Like when the girl bit you on the neck, play it cool and say something like “hey calm down, I don’t know you that well yet” and then start to laugh about it. Also, don’t be afraid to finally make a move. After awhile be like, “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now.” Girls will then know that you are interested too. If they play it kewl then just wait for the oppotunity and go for it. Don’t make out or anything, but just about a 10-20 second kiss. It’ll get things a little further. After that, start being yourself… you have already picked them up.

daemyon_2000 on Fri, 20th Feb 2009 4:47 pm


You’re faking it, so your ‘conscience’ is stifling your momentum. Try getting into the ‘feeling’ and not the verbiage that has propelled you to the place where you start counting the steps that got you there! You sound like you’ve been reading one of those idiotic manuals that tell you how to “Get a Girl in 10 Easy Lessons”…lol
That won’t make you an artist; that will make you a theorist. Practical knowledge comes from trial and error, not reading about the proper methods according to a nerd who finally got laid…

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