Dating Coach Kat gives tips on flirting and how to read signals on another episode of TV’s “3 Takes”. Visit my website for info. on coaching: www.datingessentials.com

7 Comments on Dating Coach Kat with Flirting Tips

Bobzeaux on Sun, 2nd Nov 2008 5:55 pm


It’s much easier to assume that men are flirting with you more than just being friendly. The next guy who comes your way, think to yourself “would he approach me like this if I were a random GUY walking down the street (or wherever you are at the time)?”. If you don’t think so, just be polite and receptive and see where he may want to take things. Just don’t be on the defensive if he finds you attractive. You never know what kind of a prince you may be shunning. :S

datingcoach on Wed, 5th Nov 2008 8:42 am


Very true. Unfortunately, many women are cooler and more aloof when guys try to approach them, when it costs nothing just to be pleasant and polite. This is to the gals who blow off guys they’re not interested in: please realize that a guy’s really putting himself out there when he approaches you. Put yourself in his shoes and consider how tough it is. If you’re not interested, just politely tell him, but don’t cop out with rude behaviour or insults. Just be nice!

Kat

Bobzeaux on Fri, 7th Nov 2008 2:09 am


Oh no, I know that. I’m talking to the women whom you’re addressing with this vid. The probability of things carrying out is INFINITELY less if a guy makes the first move than if the girl makes the first move. I don’t know what women are so nervous about. :S

datingcoach on Fri, 7th Nov 2008 8:26 am


Sometimes the guy won’t, if he’s shy or nervous. I have male clients who have major issues with this. No matter how interested a woman seems, they want to run and hide. So yes, start by saying hi, but be patient and help him along.

Kat

Bobzeaux on Fri, 7th Nov 2008 5:37 pm


How do you flirt? Just say “hello”. The guy is ALWAYS going to talk to you if you take the first step, which is more than what happens when situations are reversed.

datingcoach on Sun, 9th Nov 2008 10:30 am


Hi Amy,

Thanks for the feedback! I don’t know if I’ll be creating a video on how men flirt anytime soon, but I’ll post some comments here about it when I have some more time.

Why not try flirting when they’re being friendly and see what happens? The absolute best way to tell is to test them and see how they respond.

Take care and happy dating,
Kat

amyw423 on Wed, 12th Nov 2008 11:42 am


Very good video! I always assume guys are not flirting with me, just being friendly. Perhaps one day we will see a video about how to know if men are flirting?

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