Dating Advice Needed!

December 10, 2008 by
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GoboSpeaks asked:

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help :)

maybe someone wants a date? hahah

love to hear any of your stories!!

xoxox
Jill

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25 Comments on Dating Advice Needed!

  1. Glocks21 on Fri, 12th Dec 2008 11:53 am
  2. Are u kiddin me dude? Exposed to so many males? LOL. Id date Her, and be fine with her videos..cuz u know what..Id be with her.

  3. cracktheguy on Mon, 15th Dec 2008 12:27 pm
  4. The jealousy part of the guy’s brain could not handle the fact that you were(are)exposed to so many other males.

    A lot of guys couldn’t handle it whether or not they’d admit to it.

  5. pintar5775 on Tue, 16th Dec 2008 2:12 pm
  6. Guys “waste” just as much time on the internet; we just do it with our pants down *awkward silence* you should tell them right away

  7. Skakan on Wed, 17th Dec 2008 7:58 pm
  8. i’d date you!

  9. chinathetown on Sat, 20th Dec 2008 4:06 am
  10. hi~!!!~! ur so cute!!

  11. MadDashiell on Sat, 20th Dec 2008 5:00 pm
  12. If you have nothing in common its allready doomed to be superficial and fail. Let chips fall were they lay, I personally think your quite a catch Creative, talented, funny ,and Breathtakingly way to cute. Ive noticed people misunderstand most Artist cause deep down they cant even see how jealous they are towards you for being able to express yourself in more ways than they will ever dream of being able to…

  13. MadDashiell on Sat, 20th Dec 2008 7:02 pm
  14. Up front allways, cards on table I personally would flip out digress about old films, I also like editing I use vegas studios, I love to perform, magic stand up comedy, and I paint, people think i just want to talk about myself all day (COMES OFF AS A RANT) but im generally trying to PINPOINT or figure out what others interest is. IF YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON, ITS DOOMED TO BE SUPERFICIAL.

  15. invisibleisland on Mon, 22nd Dec 2008 6:29 pm
  16. Here’s some advice from someone who shouldn’t be giving advice. You don’t need to tell him right away, but you should be able to tell him by the third date. It can’t be a secret. It’s part of who you are. It’s too bad you’re on the other coast. I’d go out with you, and we could post our date on YouTube. It would be like the show Blind Date, but internet style.

  17. JDI180 on Wed, 24th Dec 2008 12:46 pm
  18. Gobo: :^) I would be sure to let him see your quirkiness, regardless of how soon you talk about your full hobby. After all, I’m guessing ur creativity, wit, & energy are strengths of yours-dates need to see & appreciate them :-)

    If u like, u can slowly introduce what you do & see what happens. “Wouldn’t it be cool to be an actress!!” & give examples. OR you can say “I wish I was a director.” See how it goes. If u don’t like his reaction, creep him out w rubber worms or play w your spit!!

  19. JDI180 on Sat, 27th Dec 2008 10:01 pm
  20. Hmm, it IS a connundrum! U probably have it solved, but I’ll comment :)

    I have a similar situation. I’ve noticed when I talk about my profession with full-frontal honesty, then Im seen as “the guy who is a job title” instead of “me”.

    BUT I still care ALOT about what I do. Sooo, I’m totally HONEST, but not fully OPEN. I might talk vaguely about what I do. I “work with parents & kids to help the kids be healthier”, or give a different job title instead, like “Behavior Specialist”

  21. JDI180 on Sun, 28th Dec 2008 2:12 am
  22. xxholiliexx: You must not have many friends if you make it a point to tell someone that she bores you while she’s discussing something important to her.

    Have a great day

  23. nitemareglitch on Tue, 30th Dec 2008 1:51 pm
  24. I know this was posted about 6 months ago…but, I know how you can meet someone…do it over the internet…but be selective and cautious (but, I don’t have to tell you that ;) )

  25. argenfargabarg on Wed, 31st Dec 2008 12:15 am
  26. My 2 cents, really not worth a farthing. Easy to figure this out, bring up YouTube, if they don’t know what it is show them. The reaction will tell you a lot. Or not, but then don’t just come out with it, beat around the bush if you really want to know. Anyway, honesty just means not telling lies. People react to direct statements in stupid and often useless ways, especially if they don’t really have any experience with what you’re talking about. End of transmission…

  27. DsmB2007 on Sat, 3rd Jan 2009 8:03 am
  28. I think when hobbies and activities come up in conversation, then telling them about YT is probably very necessary…

    You don’t want to be dating someone for a while..and then find out they’re a YT star!! LOL

    Common sense dictates that you’ll know when it’s the right time..and if they accept it or not..it’s a part of life.

    I’ve stopped seeing some girls on far less issues than vlogging on YouTube!!

    Great video..!
    daniel =)

  29. xXbelmontXx on Mon, 5th Jan 2009 7:23 am
  30. hey , just wanted to say , if someone doesnt want to date you because of the reasons you mentioned , they do not deserve you. Youre a beautifull woman and i mean very beautifulll..Of course i dont know you personally but from what i can see from your videos, you look like a wonderfull person. I know its useless to say this but i would defenitly date you , i think the fact that you make youtube videos is pretty cool.

  31. CommentorX on Mon, 5th Jan 2009 7:25 am
  32. Oh my God! YouTube is a big waste of time? You mean all those video comments I’ve done, all those ratings – they’re all for nothing??? My God, what have I done? WHAT HAVE I DONE?

    Nah, just crazy talk. Next thing you’ll be saying is that you’re not coming down to Delaware to have sex with me. Still waiting for your arrival schedule on that one, by the way.

  33. JJB5446 on Thu, 8th Jan 2009 1:37 pm
  34. Being an underground celebrity gives you a great feeling. You should explain your need for voyeurism, and want of validation from viewers. If they can’t share you in this way it does show a weakness in their security. Say up front this is who you are and what you do. Love it or leave it.

  35. warhata2397 on Fri, 9th Jan 2009 1:39 pm
  36. you deserve better then that sweetie!!! you go girl!!

  37. reger7 on Sat, 10th Jan 2009 9:45 am
  38. You’re pretty and funny!

  39. reger7 on Sun, 11th Jan 2009 5:42 pm
  40. The guy dumped you because of Youtube? Wow talk about shallow! You’re better off with out him…

  41. XxHoLlLliexX on Wed, 14th Jan 2009 2:04 am
  42. Oh yesh , and you’ve had a lot of experience ain’t yhu? The video was a bit boring but worth watching because its werid … Lol ! Next time try and not bore me to flippin death

  43. ladyrebel4ever on Sat, 17th Jan 2009 12:47 pm
  44. Its your thing and you can do with it what you want. If he doesn’t like you for who you are.. did he really like you to begin with? His loss… and life goes on.

  45. Ontus on Mon, 19th Jan 2009 7:02 am
  46. yeah sure, talk about what you’re passionate about right off the bat! so many people like you for who you are anyway! no need to conceal who you are :) have fun !

  47. MisoMe3 on Tue, 20th Jan 2009 8:33 pm
  48. On the subject of dating advice, if a guy wants your number and seems really into you but waits two or more weeks to call what does that mean?

  49. supercommie on Thu, 22nd Jan 2009 12:58 pm
  50. I love you Jill, go on a date with me!

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